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3 MINUTE READ ON WHEN TO SAY GOODBYE, BEING UNIQUE AND MAKING YOURSELF PROUD!



Here is something to remind yourself, a quote that I loved and a question to ask yourself for this week…

Something to remind yourself…

You know what you should never underestimate? You should never underestimate the power a negative person has on your life. In this video Patrick Bet-David shares Profound this video: “You know the power of a small, thinking entitled negative person? How easily it is for them to destroy your life? You can be pissed. You can feel insecure. To make one comment. You go home, argue with your wife. You’re pissed off at your kids. They did nothing wrong. The level of power negative people have so many underestimate. So for me, if you’ve already proven that you’re negative multiple times and you have proven you don’t value the relationship, I don’t take it personal. All I tell you is, dude, I respect you. I wish you nothing but the best but we don’t need to pursue this. God bless you. Go find somebody else. I’m okay with that.”

I.

Learning how to focus your thoughts effectively and knowing which priorities to set – based on what really matters to you – is perhaps the biggest and most important struggle in life. For years, I’ve been teaching people how to change their way of thinking and thereby enabling them to realise their full potential – and what NOT to accept or settle for – both in their private and professional lives. I believe our happiness – to a large extent – is up to ourselves, something we are responsible for and can create ourselves. So remember: you are the one who decides what you want to do with negativity. Sure, you can fret and worry about it, get angry or feel sad, but you could also choose to just ignore that person. Your life, your choices!


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Having the right mindset helps to put things into perspective. To take a step back, observe a situation and ask yourself, “What do I really think of this?” Or “What do I really want with this?” Don’t act purely on emotions or on autopilot, but with the presence of mind to examine what’s behind it. I believe the ability to look at things from a distance is the highest form of thinking human beings can achieve. I makes you live go from your automatic pilot to your authentic pilot. It’s what happens when you decide not to react to people and situations but to take a pause and respond in a way that aligns with who you want to be and how you want to live your life.


A quote that I loved…


10/10 recommend being your realest, weirdest, and hottest self instead of trying to be everyone’s cup of tea.

Case Kenny


A question to ask yourself…

What did I do today that I am proud of? If I can’t come up with anything, what is something I can do in the next few minutes to feel proud of myself?

Have an amazing week!

Love,
Kelly