Here is something to remind yourself, a quote that I loved and a question to ask yourself for this week…
Something to remind yourself…
Ryan says it as it is: “I found totally clarity in my life when I decided that they are no wrong decisions. Every decision you make has a positive and negative. Has a good things and bad things. Every decision is just a pivot that takes you down a different path and I would rather regret the things I did than the things I never tried. Because the last thing I want to have happen, I spend my entire life running a race that has no finish line. Because one day, years down the line, I’m going to wake up and realize the finish line is something I already had and then it’s going to be too late.
I.
There’s no such thing as the ‘perfect’ decision. Every choice shapes your path, and no matter what you choose, you’ll learn something along the way. The worst choice? Not making one at all: getting stuck in overthinking and waiting for certainty that will never come.
Trust yourself. Make the best choice you can with what you know now. And if it turns out differently than expected? Adjust, pivot, and keep going. Life isn’t about always choosing ‘right’; it’s about choosing and moving forward.
And if you decide not to decide? That’s okay too. But then let it go. No more overthinking, no more second-guessing. If you don’t make a choice, make peace with the situation as it is and move on.
II.
Try this if you’re overthinking a decision:
1. Write down the decision you’re stuck on.
2. List two or three options you could choose right now.
3. Ask yourself, “If I had to decide in the next five minutes, what would I choose?” Go with your gut.
4. Take action on your choice, or if you’re not ready, make peace with waiting—no more second-guessing.
Clarity comes from action, not endless thinking.
A quote that I loved…
Anything you lose by speaking your truth isn’t a loss. It’s an alignment.
– The good quote
A question to ask yourself…
What’s one thing I can remove from my life that’s not serving me?
Love,
Kelly