3 MINUTE READ ABOUT BEING THE VILLAIN IN SOMEONE ELSE’S STORY, ASKING FOR HELP AND STEPPING OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE
Here is something to remind yourself, a quote that I loved and a question to ask yourself for this week…
Something to remind yourself…
This TikTok video that was pushed to me this week really resonated with me: “Let them make you the villain of your story. Let them tell people all you wanted to do argue, asking for too much or that you were crazy. Because here’s the thing, regardless of how it ended it ended and what they think about you isn’t a battle you have to fight anymore. You know your truth and the truth always comes out. And if someone is lying about the way you were, or whatever actually happened, or twisting the truth to try to make things to look a certain way, the people in your life that actually matter will know the truth and that is all that matters. So let it be, walk away with your head held high. Remember that truth always comes out and if it doesn’t the people that actually matter know the truth.”
I.
It can be really hard to let something go when you feel like the other person is wrong or when it’s really unfair or even unjust if someone gets away with it. But I hate to break it to you: people will not agree with you even when you’re right because people will see things differently than you do because we can only understand things from our level of perception. And even when they know you’re right they can still feel like screwing you over just because they can. And who’s the one ending up feeling like sh*t? You. The best thing to ask yourself is: Do I want to be right or do I want to be happy? A big life lesson I learned is that I just really want to be happy and I’ll never again let anyone that isn’t worth it mess with that.
II.
No response is a response. Sometimes the strongest reaction you can give someone is no reaction at all. Move on. Be happy.
A quote that I loved…
It’s okay to ask for help, to let someone help you. We’re not made to carry heavy things alone.
– Abbie
A question to ask yourself…
When did I last push the boundaries of my comfort zone and how did I benefit from choosing courage over fear?
Have an amazing week!
Love,
Kelly